- Quick Marriage Ponderings:
Just checking what’s new in the Doll community brought up some interesting food for thought once again. The thought of married couples telling singles and couples not to get married. Just be together so you can have fun while ignoring the shallow minded folks who force you into marriage because you have to follow society’s standards like some kind of rule.
Reading such gives an interesting food for thought because we’re always expected to do everything society tells us to like some kind of law-abiding robot that happily wants to get abused by the system. We’re supposed to do exactly what society tells us which forces people down the wrong unhappy roads, making them abusive to one another, and just hateful. There are people who want to suicide (Do note all those fences on bridges and all the cases you hear in Japan and world-wide) because people are forced to behave in a pre-specified manner. If you don’t marry a person then you’re hounded for life, or vice-versa for the ones you love because “family” and “friends” apparently “knows better”. Your feelings are irrelevant. Be the Borg from Star Trek.
I will say that being alone is boring and highly horrifying. You’re open to all the ghosts, negativity, and the brutal downsides when mentally down. Being forced together is also equally as horrifying through arguments and abuse. That nice middle where you aren’t bound by some paper is where the fun is at, or so it seems.
I’m most likely wording this too generally and to innocently in what a teen would say probably, maybe even giving people a certain ‘innocent’ perspective. It just seems like a proper food for thought of how society keeps pressuring you into unhealthy situations. That case of ignoring what others pressure you into while doing what you truly love doing and to hang out with those you prefer (if not doing harm).